The Art of Flirting

Eyes. Lips. Hand gestures. Body Language. These are all used in the Art of Flirting, and boy do people like to flirt! So what is it about sideways glances and sexually suggestive jokes that bring a smile across our faces? Maybe its the thought that we are being desired by someone that we may be desiring as well. Maybe its just the attention, or maybe we hope that the innocent flirting will lead to more intimate things ;)

Personally, I enjoy flirting. Its fun and a great way to open the door to a more-than-friendship partnering. Sometimes, I flirt without even knowing it because subconsciously I am really digging that person. The advent of "smileys" in our tech driven world have made the Art a little more fun because it allows either side to be just a little more coy about their intentions.

So how can you tell when you're flirting with someone and how can you tell when someone is flirting with you?
-You smile more often
-Eye contact is maintained
-You'll find an excuse to get next to them and/or touch them
-You body language is more open (no arms crossed)
-You leave suggestions or remarks open-ended
-You pay compliments
-You often use any of the following smileys while texting: ;o)   :o)   :op   ;op  :o*

In any event, creating a flirtatious relationship is not all one-sided, so remember that the next time you're flirting...YES that person is in to you too! Even if its just a little bit.